In this age of technology, internet, television, cell phones, we have information in an instant. Unfortunately, the information is not always correct, and people take it for fact with out educating themselves.

Even I am guilty of it, it happens.

The number one misconception about a female such as myself is that we are “man hating bitches” who obviously were screwed over by a man and this is how we get back at them.

I have decided it is ignorance, I mean after all, anytime they have ever shown a Dominatrix/Mistress in mainstream television, normally they are yelling and beating up a man. See, The safe word.

That would be the stereotypical Domme image, and “literally” kicking a mans ass and yelling at him was something I myself rarely did. Yes I got to, but there are way more activities and games besides yell, beat, repeat.

I do not hate men, and from all the talented Dommes I have met they do not hate men either.

There is far more talent and skill required than just swinging a paddle, and yelling out, “your a loser” at random men.

Most of what we do is mental. We take the mind on a journey, and the body follows. We use the senses to expand your mind, get in your mind, play with your mind.

Phone sessions or live ones, I enjoy them both because I got to play with the biggest sex organ of all, YOUR BRAIN!!!

No I do not hate men, how could I hate my man toys? [Evil Smile]

Ladies, do you have a misconception you would like to share?

Many years ago, I started using the term “Licentious Domination” to describe my style. If you do not know what the word licentious means, here is a definition from the dictionary,

1.
sexually unrestrained; lascivious; libertine; lewd.
2.
unrestrained by law or general morality; lawless; immoral.
3.
going beyond customary or proper bounds or limits; disregarding rules.

Now then, the word “implies” a very bad person by general societies standards, so why on earth would I choose it?

For me the words, lewd, immoral, and sin, are like phrases such as “rules regarding sexuality” and “proper bounds”. They are open to interpretation and are very Grey to me.

The three main topics that I was always know for, and pretty good at is, in no certain order, forced bi, however I use the term force “loosely”. Racial humiliation, and of course making fun of the small peen boys!

All three of these “taboo” topics are hot buttons with a lot of people good and bad. I have ruffled many a feather by writing, talking, and doing any one of these.

Lets take the forced bi first, shall we?

This was my “hottest” topic, meaning the pole smokers were abundant.

Most asked question, if I want to suck a cock does this make me gay? I have a wife, I love females but I have this urge to “choke on one”.

Next is racial humiliation. This one I know angers a lot of people, since we are taught “typically” to not discriminate against people of ethnicity. This one opens wounds on people whom never even had the wound to begin with.

The last one is male ego bashing, translation; small penis humiliation. What is the fastest way to wound a male ego? By making fun of his penis size. Of course!

Now these are just a few topics that were high on the list, but the list is long. It goes on with other things that would make some peoples jaw drop.

However I LEARNED many many years ago that peoples sexuality, including my own, is not open to judgment from other people. That everyone has their “thing” and we are not all the same. Nor does it define us as people, as we are all sexual beings.

Maybe someday, in the vision of my perfect world, people will not be singled out for their differences in sexuality. That people will not DISCRIMINATE because of ones sexual preferences.

Umm because last I checked we were all born with sexuality, that is not a choice.
But until people “wake up” a bit, there will be women like me, talking to and seeing the Doctors, Lawyers, Politicians, Clergy, bankers, plumbers, teachers, all with their skeletons in the closet that I am “special” enough to see.

Now then who has some Licentious traits they want to talk about? [Smiles]